Indigo Girl Meets #AlexOLoughlin

One of Alex’s fans from Germany who is on vacation in Hawaii shares her stories on her blog.
Yesterday her dream came true and she finally got to meet Alex in person.
Here is part of her story about the adventure. You can read about all her other adventures on her own blog.
The one about her diving with Trident Adventures is a must read.
And of course that adventure also created her chance to see Alex …….
 Here is her story:

Day No. 19 & 20 on O’ahu

Aloha, my friends! Meanwhile it’s Thursday and I have to catch up again with my post about yesterday. Still thinking about how to start I feel my eyes getting wet a tiny bit because yesterday was a very very special day for me. Even when it was exactly 4 weeks before my next birthday it felt like Birthday and Christmas rolled into one. Thus, I will use all my carefulness to put this experience in adequate words. 😌 Please also take my apologies that this will be quite a long text. While reading you’ll understand why. 🙏


Let’s talk about good resolutions and how to ignore them. Didn’t I wanted to plan our last days here more carefully? Oh boy, I screwed it! 😩 But that’s how life works and sometimes failures or mistakes can lead to something really beautiful and amazing. 💗 Oh my … I’m truly getting emotional thinking about yesterday. You remember that we went to the Resort to watch the filming of Hawaii Five-0

Today the filming was supposed to continue until 3 pm. Quite early we had been on the road heading again to Honolulu / Waikiki and entered the hotel area around 10 am from the beach side. But on the beach was nothing to see of filming. Therefore, we went back to the entrance area and got a nice large cappuccino at Starbucks there. The Outrigger Reef Waikiki Beach Resort is also quite big, and we took the opportunity to have a look around. And then there were a few policemen and members of the film crew and a lot of technical equipment.

I didn’t hesitate to ask if the filming was still going on. One of the filming crew told me that they were filming on the 4th floor and that we today wouldn’t have any chance to watch them working. I thanked him, turned away and a bit demotivated we sat down a few steps away in a pair of comfortable armchairs. 😔


We enjoyed our cappuccino and wondered what we would do next. In the middle of the bustle of the hotel around us I noticed a young man with a bag standing next to us. Shortly thereafter he left and a few minutes later he was back again. I glimpse in his bag and saw pictures of the cast which made me ask him if we might be there for the same reason: Hawaii Five-0.😉 Without any doubt it was for the same reason. He was a Local and as we started to talk it turned out that he had someone within the crew giving him hints about the status of the filming. If he wouldn’t have showed up, we would have left the hotel already but as he told me that they were going to finish work shortly we stayed of course. I remembered the words of my good friend Shell, she likes to use on such an occasion: It’s not about what you know, it’s about who you know! 😃 


After a while, Meaghan Rath and Katrina Law got out of the elevator, just opposite our place, and walked past us. I guess I stood there with my mouth open and watched them pass by. That guy with the bag headed behind them to ask for their autographs. He returned shortly with a big smile on his face. A few minutes later Chi McBride came out of that lift and I still was too shy to do anything. I only watched him walking out. This was my ever very first time seeing popular actors right in front of me and I had no idea how to react. Thanks to the guy with the bag we knew that Jay Hernandez, Perdita Weeks, Beulah Koale AND Alex O’Loughlin were still upstairs. 😊 So how would I react when especially the last named actor would show up?


And then something truly touching and remarkable happened. The doors of the elevator opened again and a guy with a backpack and a baseball cap on his head appeared and headed straight for us with a big grin. “Oh hi! What are you guys doing here? I’m working here but what about you?” It was Steve from Trident Adventures we made that fantastic tour on Saturday with!

He hugged us and I couldn’t resist to ask if he really couldn’t imagine why we were standing right there. 😇 No further words were needed.  He smiled brightly and said he would look who he could send us down, then he turned and walked back to the lift.

My honey and I looked at each other in surprise because we didn’t expect to meet Steve. And again, I thought on Shell’s words. Hun, you should have noticed that you were with me at that moment! 😉 The excitement within me grew and I knew that I now had to overcome my shyness. 


Many of you already know for a while that my trip to Hawai’i is not only because I love the ocean, the beach and the sun and because I always wanted to come here. And the person I wanted to thank someday is not really a secret, even though I didn’t explicitly mention the name. But only a few of those people truly close to me know detailed about the background.


Anyhow, you can imagine all the thoughts and feelings that hit me at that moment as I imagined what might happen next.😳 After a few minutes Steve came back to us, gave a Trident baseball cap to my honey and said to him: “You need to wear this now!”. He winked at me, said goodbye and hurried to the exit. As I found out later, he had another job to do and no time to stay. But in fact he took the time to go back to the set – for us. 🙏 Steve, I don’t think you can imagine the significance for me of what you did!😉 


When I think back to yesterday, I have to smile. 😊 Yeah, somehow we’re quite emotional weird Germans because after Steve gave the cap to my honey, even he had wet eyes due to Steve’s gesture. It took around 20 minutes until the lift doors opened and Alex and Beulah, and some other people I don’t remember frankly speaking, stepped out. 

Alex and Beulah seemed deep in conversation and didn’t see us. So, I called his name when they passed us by – and he looked up. I will never forget what happened next because Alex looked up and his eyes fell on the Trident cap on my honey’s head and he stopped. Both stopped, looked at us and we shook hands. 😍


Honestly, I don’t remember all details. Indeed, I had to ask my honey for some details later on. Beulah took the phone out of my hand, we lined up, he took the picture and before they were able to leave, I gathered all my courage and asked Alex if I could give him a letter. I can’t remember his answer exactly but he took it gladly without hesitation.💗 That was the moment when I was able to hand over my personal hand written letter to him by which I wanted to express my gratitude and it felt like Birthday and Christmas rolled into one. I had carried the letter with me since we landed on the island.

They headed to the exit and I – still unbelieving about what just happened – looked on my phone. Oh my goodness! 😱 The photo failed because I didn’t turn off the selfie countdown! This couldn’t be the result of all this, no way! We ran behind them and my honey made Alex stop and wait for me. And the Selfie King did it again! What else can I say as Alex’s selfies are simply the best, right? 😉 I think I thanked him 2 or 3 times and then he was gone. He got into a big white car and they drove off. And I stood there and still couldn’t believe how lucky I was. 🙏

How can I continue after THIS???😳 All this happened before noon and the day was not over yet. My honey and I sat outside of Starbucks with another cappuccino watching the people going by. I wasn’t able to realize that I met Alex. In a way, I still don’t do that honestly.


Reading this story it is quite clear that not only is Alex generous with his fans, but he also surrounds himself with friends who are generous as well.
(Thank you Stephen Kaplan!)
Thank you for allowing us to share your story Indigo Girl!


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12 responses to “Indigo Girl Meets #AlexOLoughlin

  1. Debbie Fischer

    Hey that’s my wish also! But it will never happen!

    Debra a Fischer

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    • That is why it is great when fans are willing to share their stories. For those of us who will never get the chance it is nice to see and hear the stories from the lucky ones who are able to travel there.

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  2. How incredible! So happy for IndigoGirl and thanks for sharing. It’s so great to hear first-hand that Alex is the real deal!

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  3. Indigo Girl, if you read this, thank you so much for sharing your story! Du bist die Beste!
    What a wonderful experience that shows what great guys Steve and Co. from Trident Adventures are. Alex has awesome friends, quality people attract quality people!
    Alex is always so nice to all his fans, it must be a bunch of them every day and still he makes everyone feel special.
    That he took a second selfie made me remember a story a friend shared some years ago. Said friend had the opportunity to watch the filming of a (Steve/Danny – if I remember right) scene at HQ and she was told, the actors didn’t have time to talk. Yet when Alex saw her and her friend he came over to chat and take a picture. They’ve been so happy and thanked him, but he looked at the pic and said something like “It’s not good, it’s blurred, let’s do it again”. And he did.

    Thank you Indigo Girl, and thank your hubby for running after Alex! He did good. 😉 The picture radiates happiness!
    You rock FOYeur, thanks for sharing!

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    • Thank you for also commenting on Indigo Girl’s blog post.
      I am sure she’ll appreciate it 🙂

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    • leica love your friends encounter with Alex “the selfie king.” It’s true how wonderful Alex is with his fans. Back for S6 SOTB I got to meet Alex at the event. When I asked Alex for a pic with him he was more then happy to oblige. When my friend Karen looked at the pic she said “oh no, you two look like a couple of fish” as Alex and I both had our mouths open in mid sentence. Alex then pulled me closer and said “take it again.”
      I now have two selfies with Alex I will always treasure. HE IS THE REAL DEAL. ❤

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    • alohaindigogirlgermany

      Danke dir!
      It’s a pleasure to me sharing all the wonderful experiences I made in Hawai’i. I was just as skeptical as anyone else who has not seen it with their own eyes or experienced it themselves. But I can only confirm that everything is simply real. The people I met were outstanding kind and remarkable, each of them. I guess next time I won’t be so shy anymore … 😉

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  4. Kathysr

    This is such a wonderful story, thanks so much for sharing it with us, Indigo Girl. What a sweetheart Steve is! He gave them the hat so that Alex and Beulah could find them in the crowd. And then Alex stops to take the photo again, so that Indigo and her husband will always have a treasured reminder of that lovely forever moment. Alex is absolutely the king of selfies. Best ever.

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  5. CassG

    Great story!! Loved it!! Thanks much FOYeur!! Love for Alex just keeps growing.❤

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  6. So SO happy for Indigo girl and her “Honey” to come all the way from Germany and to have her Dream come true. I can totally understand because I too know how loving , and kind Alex is to his fans, Truly He IS the “REAL DEAL”

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  7. gracenotpark

    Lovely story. 👍🏽

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